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QUOTATION: I see it all perfectly; there are two possible situations—one can either do this or that. My honest opinion and my friendly advice is this: do it or do not do it—you will regret both.
ATTRIBUTION: Soren Kierkegaard (1813–1855), Danish philosopher. “Balance between Esthetic and Ethical,” vol. 2, Either/Or (1843, repr. 1987).